Mommie dearest by christina crawford7/4/2023 ![]() ![]() A narcissistic mother will demand the daughters constant attention by expecting the daughter to meet the mothers needs. Nurturing mothers, by contrast, are elated and proud of their daughters characteristics with no thought of competing. Any sign of a daughter exceeding their narcissistic mother is met with verbal assaults and humiliation. They expect their daughter to look as good as them without looking or acting better than them. Unfortunately, narcissistic mothers often use weight, beauty, intelligence, or talents as grounds for competition. Tries to look like and compete with her daughter.A nurturing mother lets the punishment fit the crime and spends time delicately explaining any offense without threatening abandonment. ![]() ![]() ![]() This is reinforced every time the mother cuts other people out of their lives for small and sometimes misperceived offenses. Any sign of rebellion is met with threats of abandonment and unreasonable punishment from the narcissistic mother. While a nurturing mother provides comfort, support and understanding without any care for how things appear to others. There is a disregard and often denial for any sadness, discomfort, or suffering. A narcissistic mother is more obsessed with how their child is perceived by others than how the child actually feels. Obsession with appearance over feelings.Here are some other similarities to the movie that are discordant with thoughtful mothering: ![]()
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